With the forum a bit, but also with life. Husband moved out three weeks ago now. He doesn't know why and has since been for one counselling session. He seemed to think that the counsellor would tell him why he had decided to leave (16 years married). I hadn't realised anything was wrong, I just thought he was quiet because he was tired. I now think he is stressed and possibly depressed and running away - from me, though I'm fairly confident it's not me that's the primary cause. I don't know how the counselling session went - we have minimal contact right now - or whether he is going back for more. I read Michele's book and 'the last resort' made sense - I had stopped chasing fairly quickly because it clearly wasn't useful. It's SO HARD though, the waiting and wondering. I have to read that bit of the book every day to try to squash the urge to go and knock on the door of his new flat. I feel like I need to keep myself in his mind or he'll just carry on with his plan to start over without me. Any support gratefully received, especially if anyone else has been through a similar weird one with no clear reason!! Thanks in advance
