Just happened by. I need to look something up from the past and this has kept a nice record of it.
Let's see I began fighting the divorce threats in 2016 I think. My ex moved out in 11/2020 and the divorce was final in 2/2022. Its been 1.5 years since and I have no interest in going back. I stayed for my family, not for my ex.
Kids continue to do well, but co-parenting is hard. We seem to have different values and different approaches as to how to deal with the kids - that shouldn't be a surprise to anyone. I've been dating a woman now for a year. That's going well and we've had lots of fun adventures.
I don't see marriage in our near future because we both have kids and she lives about 90 miles away. Its been nice though.