I joined the gym. Lifted at lunch today. Shoulders are sore. Feels good. Mood has been good most of the day except for a phone call with W and the utilities company to get the account into my name only. Bad mood didnt last too long
Here’s a question: Our dog. He’s undoubtedly W’s. She had him before we moved in together, and he has always seen her as his master. I’m just a friend haha. But I have known him for a long time. She seemed open to me occasionally keeping him. Would this border on friend-zoning myself? Should I just let him go? Or should I be an open door for him, for example if she’s going out of town for a weekend? I do love the little guy. He’s a great companion. But I want to be careful during this time to not send the wrong message (“everything’s cool, your ol friend XH will dogsit for you while you go party”)
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23