Comparing your internal stability and happiness to the place you were early this year is very inspiring. I've been through this once before, and I know in my brain that I can/will get there, but it's still pretty raw so I don't truly believe that I'll get there a lot of the time. It's very helpful to see someone in real time standing strong on their own 2 feet, still loving their spouse, but without the dread and sorrow weighing them down.
Thank you for sharing!
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23