Thank you, Kind. Good advice.

Be assured I have zero intention of trying to teach her how to manage finances at this late date. The reason I brought up her financial history is because I am deep into thinking about managing my own finances going forward, and then she comes out with these clueless statements that suggest I can pull money out of whatever hat I want and move out.

I will also make clear to her that anything she wants regarding the process will move forward on her timeline, not mine.


Me 59 W 47
T 26 M 23
S18, S14
BD May 2023
D filed June 2023
OM1 confirmed: December 2023
OM2 confirmed: October 2023