Sun,

Yep, she wants out, let her do the heavy lifting.

She can lead this. You certainly do not need to move out just because she thought things would go like that. Ah, the harsh slap of reality.

Perfectly reasonable not to move out until such a move is part of the separation agreement. You need to be cleaved from joint liabilities and get half the assets first. And until her financial statements are complete you are under no pressure to have your’s done quickly. She leads, you respond.

D


Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.