My Story (2)

[Sunflyer]

Update: regarding the appointments to view apartments, W says that she thought I was okay with this, based on a previous discussion. Said she thought we agreed to split the savings account and then I use the money to move out.

Half of our savings account will not pay for one month's rent plus security plus other expenses, to say nothing of my monthly bills until D is final.

What I said is "finances" or "assets" need to be divided, not the savings account. I cannot finance my own living space otherwise without drawing from joint assets.

I sent her texts to discuss the financial/legal implications of moving out at this time. Her response:

"Things are getting stalled. We haven't worked on the financials, and you haven't brought up anything. If you have concerns, we need to talk about them. I am not trying to be a pain in the ***. I am trying to be respectful about the entire situation. But nothing is getting done. I feel like if I don't address something it goes by the wayside. I am feeling extremely frustrated."

She hasn't figured out, I guess, that I am not going to lead on this. Her financial statements are not getting completed either, and she has been at them quite a bit longer than I have.

If she wants to move forward, she needs to suggest a time to meet. Preferably with lawyers. Or get some stuff to my lawyer for discussion. She has done none of this.