I leave tomorrow for a 4 day break with the kids ( which I am so excited about getting some Sun and watching D14 compete in what she loves doing at a National level)
I think I will talk to H tonight and ask him to set aside some time next week. Maybe something like what Terapin said “ hi can you be available next week for some time to finalise our separation. I have decided the best path for everyone to move forward would be to sell the house and split our assets and go our seperate ways both financially and emotionally. Unfortunately this current living situation that seems to suit you is not working for me and after such a difficult year I am wanting to move forward with my life” Something like that maybe. I don’t think it sounds harsh Let him stew all weekend ( which he won’t he will just drown himself in games and drink bur I don’t mind because the kids and I will have an absolute ball)
M:41 H:48 T:20. M:16.5 BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023