When I realized all of the lying was going on, I stopped talking in person and put Email as the primary mode of communication. I have every parenting discussion documented (as well as discussion/negotiation of our marital asset division) from that point forward.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712