We have proven what DB is also about which is about helping ourselves and us getting stronger as the LBS. It may not always save our current marriage but as many say, that was dead long before BD. I still believe in hope and fresh starts even with our spouses and I still believe we can be the lighthouse. Of course we still want them, of course we wished this never happened of course we still love them, heck I still love my H even through the bad times like now. But they fired us. I think this is the detachment now. I too feel like I “ couldn’t care less”. I feel the same way. All I can say is Alcohol destroys so many things and they just live in that fog Keep enjoying Terapin time
Agree. DB has two meanings, as I see it. Save your marriage or save yourself. You benefit either way.
Me 59 W 47 T 26 M 23 S18, S14 BD May 2023 D filed June 2023 OM1 confirmed: December 2023 OM2 confirmed: October 2023
