Originally Posted by Pattnee5
My kids are my courage. H isn’t coming home anytime soon nor do I want him to the way he is. It’s time for me to move forward without him and I’m ok with that.
I just need to figure out how to pre warn him about booking a conversation next week and getting things moving. He has chosen this reality and now he needs to live with the concequences and I am ok about that knowing I did all I could

I completely understand this. I am in the middle of all of it and find myself looking past it. I only wish I could teleport myself past all the legal stuff and find myself settled elsewhere.

I love who my wife was, when we shared the same values regarding marriage and family. She has given up on those values.

I don't want to be with someone who has decided to treat me like a fifth wheel. I deserve much better than that.


Me 59 W 47
T 26 M 23
S18, S14
BD May 2023
D filed June 2023
OM1 confirmed: December 2023
OM2 confirmed: October 2023