Do you know how to tell that he is lying.

His lips will be moving!

Somewhere in my opening post it says to believe nothing he says and half of what he does.

Another words believe actions over words.

I think being gray for the moment is the right thing.

Unfortunately nothing is going to resolve fast and no one thing will make or break your marriage/R.

What are you expecting to happen?

Me-70, D37,S36