I have to follow the advice D gave you. I would also file for divorce.
Where I live this could cause problems with inheritance, should one of you pass away.
Therefor I think it would be good to have this solved.
Strange but good to read that you and I are kind of in the same place in regards our feeling for EXW/EXH and towards a possible new R.
I'm actually dating (if you can call it dates) with several men now, but I'm very honest to them of what my current expectations are. I'm seeking merely new friendships, and who know this could turn out in more.
