Dear DnJ,

Glad to see that you share again more often some news about your life. It is truly is a pleasure to read your daily adventures.

Originally Posted by DnJ
My situation, this place, these people, my journey has been, and is, the single most transformative event I’ve experienced. (So far. smile ) Nowadays I find it difficult to dredge up sorrow or sadness for my lot. I do, at times, wonder at how life would’ve been. Yet no regrets or anger, just peace and contentment. The power of acceptance and forgiveness.

This...love this text...I know I'm on my way to reach this permanently as well, although I think I would have been there already if I wouldn't allow EXH to still have a hand in my life. I do sometimes wonder if it wouldn't be better to just leave him to God, yet I can't say no when he reaches out for my help, yet to each time conclude that he distants himself again when he feels he is close enough and has an impact on my feelings again.

Therefore, I wonder DnJ? What would you do in my situation? Could use some good advice...
I will also give some more details in my own thread.

XXX
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