Thanks MA. You were an inspiration too to be honest. I just don’t “care” for his mess anymore. I don’t feel anything towards it. My kids are my courage. H isn’t coming home anytime soon nor do I want him to the way he is. It’s time for me to move forward without him and I’m ok with that. I just need to figure out how to pre warn him about booking a conversation next week and getting things moving. He has chosen this reality and now he needs to live with the concequences and I am ok about that knowing I did all I could
M:41 H:48 T:20. M:16.5 BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023