Originally Posted by Card29
Now that EA is in my mind, I had my first night where I had trouble falling asleep. My problems have otherwise been in the middle of the night. Just as I felt myself starting to detach

In other news, I went to the first of 8 grief recovery classes. I’m hopeful that it will be a very good thing for me. We have a book and have to read the first three chapters

My new glasses should be ready soon. And the new cologne is giving me confidence when I put it on. A new smell has a big impact to me

Why do you think there's an EA? I mean, there probably is, but what makes you think that?

You've mentioned she can't afford an apartment, etc on her salary. Don't be surprised if she has a nest egg stashed away somewhere. I personally know married women that take '$20 cash back' every time they get groceries. Do that 4 or 5 times a month for a few years and it adds up.

Sounds like you're doing well though. Keep moving forward!


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14