Had a female friend begging for me to take her for a ride on the bike. "Absolutely, by me a drink first." After drinking the drink, told her we need to schedule it for a time when we were both sober.

Rock, quid pro quo should be added to your mantra list.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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