I tried that earlier in the year and he refused a third party. I made arrangements and asked for my stuff back this week and he said he sold some and threw the rest away because I didn’t come last month, how he chose. I don’t think and can’t phantom he did as that would be a crime.
I am exhausted emotionally and physically. I don’t know how to respond to not engage the tyrannical kid at play, as you said.
I woke up crying. I know he is in a bad place. I can not help him, I don’t think. Yet, I need to be away from him as he is using me as buffer and relief from his pain. I also belief that he knows once I get my things there will be no ties to me. This is his way of protecting himself.
This is a lot.
Maybe you or someone can provide some insight or positive help.
