I know I’m headed in the right direction. Thank you, DnJ
Everything you need to do is counter intuitive. You get her back by not trying to get her back. Set her free. You do not want to get put in the friend zone. That is most guys number one issue. She is your lover, or nothing. Your behavior is what will get you what you want. You do not want to be with a woman who does not want to be with you. You do not share your woman with other men. You respect her decisions even if you disagree with them.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712