Second roller coaster ride (2)

[Pattnee5]

Awesome on the grief counselling hopefully you find some positives in it. Remember even in your turmoil there is still positives you just need to be receptive to it and open to it.

As far as any EA or PA there’s nothing you can do about it if it’s happening/happened. This is where you need to find the inner strength to detach properly. I don’t know how mine happened specifically it just did. I can’t change any 3rd party if there is one ( I still don’t know and I see saw between thinking there is and isn’t). Don’t let W drag you down. Even if there is another man you can’t do anything to change it. It could keep you awake for many more nights and what will you achieve? Just wasted energy.

Awesome about the glasses and cologne, how about a new wardrobe and hitting the gym. Find new hobbies, reinvent Card. Find yourself again. Find yourself away from W. You’re young. Very young. Your life isn’t over. You likely aren’t even half way at only 38 you have a long amazing adventure left. Yes sure you’re a dad, so what? Many women find that sexy. Many women are also divorcees and ready for their next phase of life. You can still have fun and love your life. Don’t ever feel guilty for enjoying your life during this turmoil