Second roller coaster ride (2)

[Ready2Change]

Just email her:

“If you want to claim assets as yours, please list them in email and put a suggested dollar value against them. Then we can either agree and you can have them, or we refer it to lawyers. We need to make sure this is done properly.”

^^^This^^^



Do not have verbal discussions unless they are parenting related.
Always let her calls go to VM, then you can listen and respond appropriately.
All business related convos should be email, not texts. (My most used text to X was "I sent you an Email")

This is the pattern:
She text saying she will call you.
She calls. You let it go to VM.
You listen to VM.
You process, taking whatever time you need. Ask for guidance here if needed.
If a response is required, you draft an Email.
You wait, then proof read it. Send Email. Text her "I sent you an email."