Second roller coaster ride (2)

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DnJ, I am working on talking to a L right now. The former paralegal is supposed to be sending me a few recommendations soon. I won't let her take anything right now.

Thank you, Ready. I've been parenting so much the last 1-2 years I almost forget what I like to do. I do have a passion for American college football, and the season is starting. Currently my interest is at like a 1 out of 10, but I'm going to force myself to go to the games with people, to hang out before the games. I might try to join a rec softball or kickball league.



I just had another convo with FIL. W is not talking to him or any of her siblings. That's because they will not validate what she is doing. Pretty much only talking to her mom and people she's loose friends with that I've never met. Not talking to any of our shared friends.

I'm really starting to wonder if there is another man. I have absolutely no idea how she can afford all of the bills she's going to have on her salary. She said she will have no roommate. I know what she makes, how much apartments cost, her car payment, insurance, etc. There's no way she can afford it. I know for a fact that no one in her family is sending her money. Her dad 100% will not, and her mom has no money. But whatever, that's for her to figure out.

The main reason I'm concerned about another guy is if W is planning on having S1 around someone else like that. That is an absolute no-no, right? But I guess I have no proof of an affair, so nothing I can do. I'm not going down the PI road again like I did in D#1.