Hopefully you have done enough personal growth. Hopefully you will double down on your own improvements.
I never made it to piecing, but I understand M/F relationships so much more now.
Do you understand your SMV? How much more attractive are you now than at BD? Does she desire you? Can you see it in her eyes? Is she willing to bend over backwards for you?
Take it slow. Be hyper observant. Stay on your purpose.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712