Second roller coaster ride (2)

[Ready2Change]

Thanks for the support. I need to keep getting out there. I’ll respond more later.

W texted and is assuming she will get all of S1’s furniture because “her parents bought it”. I responded “it’s your choice to do all of this. It’s unfair to stick me with hundreds of furniture purchases”

I offered a compromise, she said “no my parents bought that”

I said let’s talk later

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Get legal advise. My X tried this BS with the children's books.

There is a line in the legal sand where everything needs to be "negotiated"...not sure if this is when one person has been severed or what....

Until then either one of you can do whatever you want...IE she can take the furniture from the marital home.



I strongly suggest keep all negotiation via email so you have written records.

You are dividing assets. She wants the furniture. Get her to state a $ value. Do this INDIRECTLY.

The furniture goes on her side of the balance sheet, you get the cash value on your side. No need to quibble over things, but make sure the split is fair.

My X got the kitchen aid mixer. I purchased a new one. Two lawyers arguing cost $800/hour.