After ultimatum, my wife decided to dump OM and go back to the marriage + she said she is going to put an effort into it. She deleted all the content (texts, his phone number, pics, etc), from the cell phone and swore she is not in touch with him anymore. She even sent him a sms in front of me, that she does not want to be in touch with him anymore under any circumstances. She said I can check her cell phone any time/day/hour if I want and she has no problem with that.
Strong moves work, weak moves do not and this is why we rarely see turnarounds on this forum.
