Have you explored buying her out? Maybe with your family?
It's not really possible.
They say 'timing is everything'. Well, my W has the worst timing at everything in all aspects of her life. I'm going crazy trying to figure all this stuff out. I'll be in a slightly better financial situation than her moving forward, so I have no idea what she has planned.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14