If your lawyer is trying to speed up the process, just remember...that you are the one that is paying him/her to do the legal work and they work for you...not the other way around. Just advise your lawyer that you are working on the paperwork and when you have completed and reviewed the documents, not once, but twice, you will schedule an appointment to meet with him/her or will send him/her the information electronically. Don't allow your lawyer to rush you in doing the paperwork. Take your time. This is a serious matter and you need to work on the papers on your time. It's not like you are going to court today. Your lawyer sounds like he/she wants this over and done with in order to collect $$$.
As for your W...typical behavior in dragging her feet. She will find any and all excuses for not getting the paperwork done and submitted. Some complete the paperwork and it will have all sorts of discrepancies in them. They do not like to do the hard work. I do hope she completes the paperwork and submits it. It is very frustrating trying to get them to do their part.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
