I really just want to tell her one time how hurtful and BS this is
If you want to make her angry and want to 100% ensure your marriage fails, go for it.
I’d like you to search the internet and see if you can find ONE time when a marriage was saved because a LBS told their ex that be they’re being hurtful.
It never, ever happens.
Crumbling in front of her under your emotions, or begging or pleading or threatening are a great way to get your divorce finalised ASAP.
You need to employ the 24 hour rule. Any text or email from her, and you sit on it for minimum 24 hours before replying. It means the initial wave of emotions has passed and you respond logically.
