Thanks, DnJ. That is how I understand it, too. I'm glad I posted that here and not a text. I know nothing good would come from it except for a temporary high for releasing it on her. That's what you and my friends are for right now.
I'm going to talk to a friend's W tonight who was a paralegal for years in divorce law, for advice and a lay of the land.
I finally responded to W's texts. I just said "I'll get back to you later"
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23