Second roller coaster ride (2)

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She thinks she knows you. Prove her wrong. She has set you free. Reinvent yourself.


Accentuate your male traits. Add masculine traits and drop the feminine. Make grooming a ritual. Example: Woman can't grow facial hair, so figure out a new style you want to try. If you are typically clean shaven, don't shave all week, then Friday and Sat, trim up a nice goat. Change up the way you smell. Leave the old aftershave alone and get at least three new ones.

Any questions from here get a simple response.

W:"Whats with the new blablabla"
H:"I liked it, so I bought it"

or "I like the way it smelled"

Go clothes shopping Thursday afternoons. Buy 1 or two new stylish outfits. Age appropriate. Definitely get one or two good pair of shoes right away.

Get a couple fashion watches. There are some good inexpensive options out there.

Embrace this opportunity.

I plan on shopping soon, probably today. I need a way to shake up my look, though. I'm bald and already shaved. Not a lot of options on top. I already have a beard. Might have to switch up the beard. Not sure what other options exist haha. I know W does not like me clean shaved. I accidentally trimmed it super close once and she hated it haha. I'm also starting lifting. Need some tone. I ordered 2 new pairs of glasses last week, updating after 7-8 years. One has clear frames on the front, very different from what I've worn.

If you are like most of us, you have restricted your interactions with women. Set goals to interact more. Can you make random women you interact with laugh, or smile, or whatever?

I had a brief convo with a woman at the concert. Got her to laugh, it felt good.

You are predictable. Do things that are not predictable. Do not be boring. Do things that are exciting. Especially right now during this phase of the process.

I'm sure I am. I need to push some boundaries but don't know what yet. I've hardly had a moment to myself. I'll start writing down ideas. Travel somewhere exotic? Dye the beard? Trade in my car and get a truck? No idea is too crazy for the list, even if I'm not going to do it