Had a phone call with W as the text exchange was starting to get complicated. I confirmed who she was staying with since she will have S1. She then asked:
W: "So what is the next step?" (She's said on 2 different occasions that she wants this to be over and painless. Basically wants a quick, easy D like that will solve all of the problems.) M: "That's up to you. You know where I stand, right?" W: "Yes." M: "Do you want to talk some time? It's up to you. I don't want to talk at you, just to listen." W: (I forget exactly what she said, but she kinda said yes, kinda said "let me think about it". I didn't push it further).
The "want to talk" question felt pursuing, but it also felt like follow-up from our counseling last week. She's moving at 1,000 mph. I feel like a leaf in a hurricane right now, not a breeze.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23