There is a great poster AmyC I think over in the MLC section I gotta find it. Read her story her experience of when she went through a MLC. It was intense. It scares the bejeezuz out of me and I hope I never go through it. But a great read and insight into wtf goes on in their mind. I know your W is only in her 30s but I def feel there are periods of transformation within people at certain ages
M:41 H:48 T:20. M:16.5 BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023
