I can’t believe how many people are telling me at the moment they know friends or people going through the same thing as me. Their H leaving marriages walking out, MLC modes similar age demographic to H. At leas 5 different people have told me the same thing about their friends women left or walked out on by their H, or women walking out on their H who have become recluses and drinkers. I do wonder how much of this was COVID’s fault. Unfortunately as the worlds most locked down city during the pandemic I would say there was a lot to blame there ( that should narrow down my location 😊 263 days stuck at home). I actually loved it, the break from work, being home with the kids I would walk daily and socialise with local friends and even trained myself up for a half marathon which I ended up doing at the end of 2021. H just worked, stopped the gym and spiralled I guess.

Goodness me I am so scared of having a MLC 😂how do I avoid it.

Had an amazing night out last night I wasn’t going to go, I was just going to go home and ended up catching up with a friend from an old workplace who I don’t see as often. Had such a good laugh and chat and it’s so amazing to be able to vent and laugh and feel so supported. She said “ you are such a beautiful soul that has so much to offer this world, never let a man dim your light”
That comment just made my absolute weekend


M:41 H:48
T:20. M:16.5
BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023