I had my first angry thought in the situation today. She had talked about all of the stresses at home and how she cant imagine going back to it. IC asked her “how have you felt this week away from that situation?”
She said, “better, I only have to worry about myself. I miss S1 though *tears*”
So you dump ALL of the responsibilities on me? I dont know how long this will go on, I dont think she has a plan. She said she’s going to the lake next weekend (gee have fun). I know to say “ok sounds fun” if she tells me. But I have to say out loud that it’s BS. And this is also after she went to EU for a total of 5 weeks and left me with the kids. And when she came back the 2nd time, she acted like she had to coach me with S1. That really bothered me at the time and it still plays in my head.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23