Be excited for your future. Run to something rather than run from something. Embracing your future does not necessitate getting a divorce by the way.
Divorce splits assets and custody. That’s it.
If you need financial protection or security, then get it. If there is abuse or likewise, then get protection. Otherwise, leave the heavy lifting to the spouse who wants out. Maybe that’s you now. Might want to give that a few months to ensure you are acting on something deeper than feelings. Decisions based upon emotions will lead to regret.
Before completely upsetting the apple cart, speak to a lawyer. Ensure you know the best, worst, and most likely scenarios of outcome in all this. Knowledge is power.
Draw a line on disrespectful behavior and how you are to be treated. That applies beyond one’s spouse; it applies to everyone you interact with. That is a boundary.
Our problems arises when we overlay our ideas and expectations. Your spouse will not respond logically or rationally. They will respond emotionally. And that is why it takes so very long for them to find there way, as there emotions are all over the place. Even though the emotions are mostly hidden, they are consuming and always pushing.
Running is them trying to run from themselves. Some drink, do drugs, spend money, or sits alone and brood.
Your spouses journey is not about you. So don’t make it so.
You’ve found indifference. Now find YOU. Your convictions. Your journey. A great opportunity while the noise of your spouse is muted.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
