Originally Posted by Terapin
Because I'm going from seeing my son literally every day of his life to essentially 6 months a year.
When it comes to children it is definitely quality not quantity
Originally Posted by Terapin
I'm watching my son have his entire world upended.

What if I tell you he will be happier living with two happy separated parents?
Originally Posted by Terapin
I'm going from a $330,000 home to an apartment or dump (after likely moving back with my parents for a while).

I don't understand how you went from being to live like a king to moving in with your parents when you pay no alimony or child support?
Originally Posted by Terapin
I'm losing half of the possessions we've acquired the last 15 years.

You acquire more possessions the next 15 years of your life.
Originally Posted by Terapin
And I"m losing the person I've spent 20 years with, only to start over again in every aspect of life at age 50.

You don't have to lose her if you choose not to. Sounds like she is willing to be friends.
Originally Posted by Terapin
Why? Because she's 'unhappy' and wants to see what's behind 'door #3'.
Are you sure that is all that is to it? Why do you think she is unhappy?
Originally Posted by Terapin
Yes, I'm bitter
Be better not bitter. This to shall pass. Up to you how long it takes.