I’m back :(

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I was thinking the asking her a simple “how are you” was part of the “try something and react” strategy. I backed off when she changed subject and dont plan on asking again. I hope to have a clearer picture after counseling tomorrow. I dont have high hopes or expectations for it. I think she will only want to talk logistics. Per her words yesterday, she wants a D to be over quick and easy. I know it wont regardless of how fast things are filed, etc. We could get a D finalized tomorrow and it would not relieve either of our pain.

You are right, I need to let go. I dont feel like I’ve been a total failure with that. Today was the only time I’ve “checked in” with her. She did seem to respond for a bit before changing subject. I thought I remembered from the past that if there is communication going on and it’s 2-way, but it seems like she just wants space.