I called and told XW what is going on due to D11. We get along fine and she's happily remarried, but I won't be sharing many details with her, only what's relevant to D11. She told me her sister is divorcing her husband right now, too, and XW just told D11 about it a couple of days ago.
I'm going to call for counseling for D11 now.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23