A little less lost? Pt 3

[Pattnee5]

Also the drinking around home has stopped. Cupboards have been emptied. The “gaming “ around me has stopped too. He seems to do it before I get home from work and disappears before I get home. He’s now started re -doing all the household chores again though ( the same ones he whined about). I’m not saying anything. Takes my load off 😂😂😂this guy has gone nuts

It’s so nice coming home to none of that. Although it’s only been a few days.
Filled up my weekend again with plans, birthdays, catch-ups lots of kid involvement.
I’m still on the fence if I bring up “ the talk” of proper legal separation finances house sale etc. A small part of me is still holding on to if I’m making the move too soon. We are coming up to almost 9 months since BD I don’t want this dragging out but at the same time that’s pretty final for me. House sale, split finances i am done then( there’s no other feesable scenario that works and I don’t want him holding me financially Randsom I’ve seen other friends go through it and it was hell)
Life begins at 40 right? 😉
Why the heck won’t he just do it already. I keep thinking of DnJ words. Doing nothing is still doing something. For now I’m just holding steady but I think In the next week or two I’ll say something.