My Story (2)

[Pattnee5]

We can’t help how our family treats them. They have seen the hurt caused on us. My mum is very much the same with H. She is angry and has every right to be as she has had to pick up the pieces of me. She feels very disrespected by him too. All she says to me is that’s her boundaries and he made his bed he can sleep in it. I don’t tell H anything that mum says to me or her feelings. I think she’s ready to unleash on him but biting her tongue. Mind you this is the same woman who treated him like a son, treated him better than his own family have and welcomed him with open arms always. He would always say she was more his mum than his own mum.
She had every right to be hurt and we aren’t responsible for them
Makes life tough and I know my mum would eventually welcome him back with open arms should we reconcile. But it’s not our responsibility for how others treat them. She’s done this there are concequences with actions.