Hi Sunflyer, thanks for your thoughts. I’m sorry you’re going through this, too. It sounds like your W is going through chaos, too. I’m probably mind reading with the “wanting to explore” thoughts. Easy to do when we’re vulnerable.

My XW battled/battles severe depression and I know that was a factor in our D. Unfortunately MS seems to be just as destructive. Everyone’s MS is different, but W’s has been unrelenting, plus she was diagnosed 10-20 years before most people get it. I think she feels her life slipping away.


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23