Originally Posted by Rockon
Yes it’s clear to me she doesn’t respect me. I have been establishing my self respect living what is important to me.

Are you though? You took quite a bit of disrespect in your previous post, and you readily admit that. It's been basically a year, these boundaries should have been set and established a long time ago. You don't seem to quite grasp that you can not nice your way back. I'm not going to tell you to work on it, I'm gonna tell you stop, yesterday.

Also, again, your children are adults. Why in the world do you need to be the middle man? You don't, period. You know why you didn't tell her about the "difficult" time S had while she was gone? Because you handled it and there's zero point in making it an issue now, which has been how much later?

You really cleaned and vacuumed the car for them in preparation...seriously? And how did that work out for ya? Ya got scolded like a little kid because of the other car being dirty. In the future you clean and vacuum your car for a date, absolutely not in this situation.

Lastly, AAA is a thing. Uber is a thing. LYFT is a thing, tow trucks are a thing. Come on now, this isn't your problem to fix. S wasn't with her yet, so not...your....problem.

She doesn't respect you at all, and it's painful to watch how little self respect you have as you sit there and take it.



Originally Posted by Rockon
Just found a great project bike. Setting up a time to look at it.

That's it? Nothing about the year, make, model?....

Maybe I'm seeing more to this than there is...but to me, this update explains why there's been a lack of them, and it's a decent backslide.

Last edited by JosephS; 08/21/23 11:31 PM.

Me: 40
EX:37
Together 17 years
Married 16 years
5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11

BD 03/06/20, divorced 12/23/21