Welp, just got the documents served to me today! The good news is, the judge signed the 50/50 custody agreement. The bad news is, it definitely feels more 'real' now.

i did see in the petition something about it's my right to request the court to mandate marital counseling sessions or something, but there's no way I'm doing that.

All I know is when this is finished, I will NEVER even think about getting married again.

Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14