Originally Posted by Kind18
You didn’t break and stood up to her. She found that attractive and wanted sex.....NEVER initiate sex. Let her work for it. The most attractive thing to a woman is a man who doesn’t need her.
Most likely her behavior is subconscious as well. After she initiates, then you can take the lead. You should be a challenge.


Originally Posted by Kind18
When you go out to the concert, wear classy clothes, new cologne, and don’t give her heaps of attention. Tell your friend’s wife how hot she looks, don’t initiate hand holding, and don’t turn down flirting or attraction from other women at the concert.
And this should be your new normal, with or without her in your presence.


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