Haha did consider that for a second but really disadvantages me and the kids ( the Internet not the alcohol) and doesn’t stop him buying alcohol and bringing it with him.
Safe to say it seems I need to cut all losses now and rip the bandaid off sell the house and proceed with things so I can have my own space with the kids where he doesn’t have free reign to come and go. He made a comment to D14 “ I still pay for this house “ which pretty much makes the decision easier for me
M:41 H:48 T:20. M:16.5 BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023