But any constructive advice how I can say this stuff and my boundaries without coming across mean or anything or blaming or anything that may upset him. I know it needs to be a morning conversation. Not an evening one.
Pour out all the alcohol. Cancel internet.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712