We have tickets to a concert this weekend that we bought months - long before BD. We are going with another couple so I'm interested to see how this goes. I heard her making plans for our kids to be dropped off with a family member so it seems like we're still going together. I'm actually looking forward to it and maybe she'll be normal again for another night.
My 2 cents:
Keep up the DBing. No R talk.
If these are 180: Behave more masculine. Be supper confident. Dress for the occasion in clothes that she has not seen you in. New cologne as well. Lead. Do not fear interacting with other ladies while in her presence.
IF you normally go home after the show, do some research now and see if you can find something else YOU would like to do afterwards. Talk to the other guy about it before hand and you both tell the ladies you two have a surprise for them after the show.
Do not be supplicating. Do not be predictable. Do not be boring. Have a great time.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
