I decided to answer without reading your whole post Pattnee (this is a 180 for me). I dont have judgment or the place to tell you what to do. But “He double hockey sticks” I got reactions and a lot of compassion for you and D. Let me say, that was a set up and must have been difficult for you and D to have H behaving so poorly and entitled and disrespectful of your boundaries and the sanctuary of your home and family. There! Said it. Now I’ll set aside and listen to the vets.
