Oh MA what a post. And firstly can I say wow how amazing you’re doing.it sounds like your H is in the real thick of things now and you are absolutely KILLING IT GIRL!!! How amazing is this. H sounds like a completely lost soul. It’s so hard isn’t it, to have to sit back and watch them destroy their lives. Everyone keeps hammering it into me “this is his mess to sort out” so we can’t fix it for them. You know how this story goes in your H current mindset… “get MA back… MA agrees… oh darn nope don’t want this anymore… see ya” He still sounds like he is in yo-yo land. I can’t help with the advice other than keep those firm boundaries up. Boundaries are everything because they are ours. Be so proud of how far you have come. This is so amazing
M:41 H:48 T:20. M:16.5 BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023
