I haven't been the perfect H but one thing I've always been clear on is that this is not my fault and I am no the the monster my W paints me out to be. I am doing my best to not take things personally, don't believe everything she says but as with all things DB'ing, its not easy.
My W was always addicted to her phone and constantly staring at it. Watching instagram videos or whatever else. But my kids told me yesterday that she sat in bed most of the day and didn't do much else. She did some laundry but otherwise laid in bed for the majority of the day. That seemed a little odd.
We have tickets to a concert this weekend that we bought months - long before BD. We are going with another couple so I'm interested to see how this goes. I heard her making plans for our kids to be dropped off with a family member so it seems like we're still going together. I'm actually looking forward to it and maybe she'll be normal again for another night.
